Dear Friend,
In this newsletter, we de-bunk the myth of great leadership.
Globally we spend $366 billion annually in the pursuit of ‘Great Leadership’.
Academics and consultants are studying CEOs who have delivered outlier results. Or they look at organisations experimenting with new organisational models and sports teams that have outperformed their rivals.
Businesses pay top dollar for experts to come in and share the findings, work with their teams and help them understand what they can do to improve. Individuals are swamped with literature, videos and courses that all claim to have cracked the code of what makes ‘great leadership’. However, it is all in pursuit of a myth.
The ‘Great Leadership’ fallacy
We can all point to great examples of individuals who have undoubtedly offered outstanding leadership. Be it Bob Chapman at Barry Wehmiller, Herb Kelleher at Southwest Airlines, Ricardo Semler at Semco and the countless others quoted over the past decades. We could even look across the universe of great leaders and find common characteristics. Many of these traits are admirable and undoubtedly correlated to high performance. Despite all this, there is no such thing as ‘Great Leadership’.
Outstanding leadership isn’t about emulating others or learning from a ‘how to’ perspective. There is no formula or script to follow that will bring success. There is a reason that the pursuit of ‘Great Leadership’ is a billion-dollar industry – the answer is not there to be found.
Exceptional leaders are uniquely shaped by their environment
The stories of great leaders are all stand-alone. They are leaders who have been in tune with their passion and purpose (individually and organisationally) and have honoured their commitments.
They’ve calibrated their approach to the circumstances they faced and their role. Given the context, they’ve been clear on who they needed to be for their people, what outcomes had to be delivered by when, what and how to communicate, what actions to take, how to hold their teams accountable, etc.
In other words, what we observe from the outside as extraordinary leadership is entirely circumstantial.
We can’t transmute the acts we see into a reference model that we can adopt and expect similar results in our unique circumstances. If we aspire to become a great leader, we need to look elsewhere.
The need to look within
The key to exceptional leadership is authentic, deep inquiry. We need an open and inquisitive mind and courage to be straight with ourselves. It requires the willingness to ask probing questions of oneself and others and truly hear what is being said in response. Where to start with this inquiry? Questions like:
- What is truly important to me and the people I rely on?
- What shapes my view of myself, others and the world around me?
- Am I truly listening to what is being said to me?
- What context can I create that will cause people to act consistently with what our commitment?
- What interpretation am I stuck inside of that is getting in the way of me powerfully moving forward?
- Where am I making myself and/or others wrong?
- Who must I be as a leader to generate a potent environment for others to flourish and perform?
The list of questions that a leader might ask themselves may be long. It's also dependent on the circumstances. The answers to questions like these may change from conversation to conversation, whilst some may stay the same for long periods. The key is to be continuously checking in. Relying on an external reference to emulate can make us blind to what is happening around us and get us stuck. However, asking ourselves questions opens the playing field, reminds us to tune in to ourselves and our surroundings, and gives us choices.
In summary, there are no absolute ‘best practices’ that we can emulate. We must tune into ourselves, others and our environment to discover what each moment requires.
It's all in the questions
If you aspire to elevate your leadership, seek people who ask great questions. Seek out people who help you reflect to reveal what is going on for you and your team, and who help you create spaces for honest inquiry. There are many great teachers out there worth listening to, in as much as they cause you to ask probing questions. It was once said:
“Great leaders are distinguished through the quality of the questions they ask.”
Enjoy the rest of this quarter's issue below.
Warm wishes,
Being Human #321Leadership Beyond Titles – with Harry M. Jansen Kraemer, JrHarry Kraemer is the former CEO of Baxter International Inc., a $12 billion global healthcare company. Known for rising quickly through the ranks, he led with a philosophy rooted in influence over authority—prioritising self-awareness, humility, and strong relationships at every level. His work now focuses on teaching authentic leadership through self-reflection, work-life balance, and social responsibility. Included in the episode: - A most unusual initiation to his future wife’s family
- Self-reflection as rocket fuel for professional progression
- Befriending everyone you meet
- Harry’s daily introspective ritual
- How to encourage even the most resistant to self-reflect
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Being Human #317SuperWellness: The Journey to Heart Coherence – with Dr. Edith Ubuntu ChanDr Chan blends ancient wisdom and modern science to create an approach to wellness she calls "SuperWellness". She's helped elite athletes to founders to Silicon Valley executives to find new levels of vitality in life and work. We discuss: - Her H.E.A.L.T.H approach
- The instant healing that first opened her eyes to alternative approaches
- Why diet nor exercise are the highest priorities for health
- The practices more potent than yoga
- Maintaining energy throughout the day without coffee
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